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Nice guys DO finish last, if nice is their defining quality.

Because if the only good thing I have to say about you is that you're "nice," you're not worth my time as a romantic partner. The so called bad boys may be jerks, but that only coexists as a result of their other good traits, it's not an independently good trait. What are good traits are being confident, fun to be around, and not weighed down with a billion blockades preventing you from enjoying your life. I don't go into a relationship wanting to babysit somebody, and I don't want to be with somebody who thinks they have to babysit me. If you've got deep personal issues you're too ashamed to share... Get a therapist. They're legally obligated to remain confidential.

But.. Perfection dosen't exist. Just like a rose is beautiful it is also dangerous. Just like the sky is blue, it also turns gray, and just as there is light, there exists darkness. In the end everything and everyone has something that makes perfection impossible, but just because perfection dosen't exist dosent mean that special someone isnt there. Trying to get your attention, trying to steal your heart, trying to show you they want you to be that precious treasure they'll cherish and take care of for all eternity. Its just up to you to take a closer look to realize how that person feels.

fml .. going all quotey and shit .